On my client screening form, I ask a few qualifying questions. Just to give you a sense of who’s submitting requests, here’s a short rundown.
Most requests are guys between 30 and 60, who make up about 86% of the total. As I’ve mentioned, I prefer older professional guys, so this feels about right for my tastes.
Length of Stay
Requests for an hour are clearly the favorite. It’s my preference, too. I’d rather not do QV, quick visits (SS, short stays) for a few reasons. In a perfect world, he’d come in, he’d get off and leave. But what happens too often is he wants to hold off cuming, try a million positions, do DATY or MSOG. QV is for fuck and run or blow and go, and there’s no time for chit-chat. If you want this stuff, be fair and at least schedule a half hour so you don’t ruin for someone who does just want a quickie.
I’m not a clock-watcher
Half hours are not bad but are either rushed or guys try to stretch it past the time. I’m not a clock-watcher, but I know what time is, and I probably have something or someone to do after you—and you are making him wait. For the guys who wonder why I am not able to answer your texts or calls when you’ve scheduled a data and are waiting for the green light, this is probably the biggest reason.
Hour dates are perfect
Hour dates are perfect. And hour and a half is OK. Two hours or more is just pushing it. I can’t do very many of them. It takes a lot of stamina and concentration, so I try to keep these to a minimum. I understand why some guys schedule a couple hours—especially for first dates—, but an hour or an hour and a half is usually plenty of time to settle in and get past any anxiety. Honestly, if you are afraid of performance issues, I recommend a few shorter dates just to get comfortable and make the experience the goal instead of just getting off. And, as I’ve said before, unless you’ve got a pretty severe medical issue, I can get you off even if you can’t get it up. Promise. Pinkie swear.
About two-thirds of guys want me to host, and another third want to host themselves. That’s why I’ve got a place. As you know, I don’t prefer to host new clients at my place—if only because I don’t want to spend time tidying it up—, so I may just get a room to host there, but then I need to schedule enough dates to make up for the expense. It’s always nice if a guy springs for a room that I can use for more dates. Outcalls to your place works, too.
11 thoughts on “Client Screening”
I am 100% outcall to me. Never like going to an incall-did it once at a hotel. Enclosed hotels are my favorite to stay at – feel safer to me, but can get awkward if upon entering, should asked if am a guest there.
Private residence are even more scarier, unless the address is quite vivid. Entering the wrong property sometimes can be costly.
I have never had a date less than an hour – too rush and not worth it to me, but to each his own.
How long does it usually take for you to reply to a text after someone has filled out a client screening form? I’m asking because I don’t want to be a pain in the ass by texting 100 times. If finding hear back in a day or so should I text again? It’s that age old how long to wait until you call thing. Thanks!
Hi Pat, I took the day off today and didn’t respond to anyone. Usually, I’ll get back in a day or two depending how busy I am. It doesn’t hurt to text once or twice a day… especially if I just refresher my ad on Megapersonals (https://megapersonals.eu/public/post_list/22/1/1), the only reliable posting site these days. The profile sites are nice, but they don’t indicate if I am available or not.
I wish to be a new client and I understand most are 30, I am 26. I am trying to use megapersonals but there is not an option for Delaware, how do I find you on there?
I see you found your way, but for the others, I have requested them to add Delaware. Meantime, I am in VERY South Philly. haha
Oh gosh remove that question I am tired and did not see the link 😅
Love this blog. Wish every escort had something like this. Anyway I’m a short stay guy through and through. Done hh here and there and have never done an hour. Why? Because I don’t need all that time. I only see people who I’m very attracted to and once I’m started I don’t switch positions and only last about 5 minutes or less (with or without the blue pills). As far as holding back, the second chance you get is never good as the first so I don’t do that either but that’s just me. Now if you want multiple rounds than that’s where the extra time will be worth it but for me once I blow I usually like to go. On a side note I have met a few escorts over the years where a short stay turns into 4+ hours because we just like to talk to each other or more so they like to talk to me. Truth is the escort life can be lonely when you’re just holed up in a hotel/motel for months at a time so I don’t mind lending them an ear. We all need to be heard and feel like we matter to someone..
haha Blue pills only help with hard-ons not how long it takes to get off.