I’m like a nurse. I make a living in the service of others, helping people in need. Besides sharing myself intimately, I offer therapeutic and emotional support. To do this, I have to advertise and make myself public. As I’ve written about before, this leaves me exposed to haters.
“I’m like a nurse. I make a living in the service of others…”Escort Stacey
As an escort, besides the calls, texts, and emails of guys who legitimately want to spend time with me, I get my share of nonsense communications, where guys I’ve never met (and probably never will) presume they know me because they’ve seen some pictures of me chatter on as if we’ve been best friends since middle school. I also get hate mail.
Since I’ve advertised that I am pregnant, I now get escalated hate mail from holier-than-thou incels who not only want to tell me how to live but who threaten me with torture and other violence because they have an ax to grind with a pregnant escort, that it will somehow damage the baby or something.
Obviously, these people need some basic education on anatomy because (spoiler alert) women have sex when they’re pregnant. Wives have pregnant sex, girlfriends have pregnant sex, escorts have pregnant sex. Get over it.
“Wives have pregnant sex, girlfriends have pregnant sex, escorts have pregnant sex.”Escort Stacey
When I was attacked in my room a few months back, I called the police. My attacker did not expect an escort to make a report. The police were not very helpful and victimized me as much as the attacker. In fact, they told me that there is nothing they could do to protect me as long as I was advertising.
This makes me wonder what police protection I would expect if I advertised as a hair stylist or a dog walker or a tutor. These people were not really saying that advertising was the problem. Like the haters who feel compelled to send hate mail, these people are morality police, not to mention fashion police. Everyone’s a critic.
Anyway, if you ever wonder why I don’t respond to your text, call, or email, it’s because of assholes like this. I have no way to know if you just need a little consensual company and relief or you are some moralizing fuck who’s got too much time on his hands and can’t mind his own business.
I am not alone in this. If you ever complain that there are not enough good providers around, remember that every girl who does this has to deal with the same creepers. Sometimes we just go dark. Some girls drop out of the business because of shit like this. Some girls don’t even get in because they’ve considered this ahead of time, so these guys ruin it for everyone. By the way, these are also the same guys who try to set up dates and don’t show or even plan on showing because they are happy just to waste a girl’s time. They are part of the reason I need to insist on a deposit in certain situations.