I was watching YouTube videos, and I wanted to share this one. I’m including my answers and some of theirs. Watch the vid for more.
What’s the most interesting thing you’ve learnt as a sex worker?
I might have to revisit this one, but I have learned that there are all sorts of people, and don’t judge a book by its cover.
“I didn’t realise how much the human anus can stretch.”
“It isn’t all about looks, and you don’t have to be a certain type of person.”
“There is something for everyone out there.”
How much sex do you have in a week?
Like some of these girls, I can’t say I’ve had no sex in a week, but there might be several days. Back in the day, I might have easily done 20 guys a day, I haven’t even done half a dozen in quite a while. I don’t think I’ll get back up to 20. That’s a lot of work and coordination, but who knows?
“There are weeks where I have no sex at all, and there are weeks where I might have sex like 40 times.”
Do you manage yourself, and do you set your own prices?
I have almost always managed myself. Sometimes I wouldn’t mind someone else handling all of the scheduling, but since I am pretty low volume these days, it’s not really necessary. On the other hand, if I had a manager, that might change. Sadly, the law doesn’t distinguish between managers and pimps.
“I manage every aspect of my business, and that’s part of the freedom on sex work.”
Do you get sick of having sex?
Like anyone, I have good days and bad days. Thankfully, being self-employed I get to pick my own hours and days. Doesn’t anyone not feel like taking a break every now and again?
“You know, not even the sex so much, but there are days where you just don’t wanna go to work.”
How do customers treat you?
Most of my clients treat me with respect, but people are people.
“Well, otherwise I wouldn’t see them.”
“For the most part, they’re just really lovely respectful people.”
“My clients are generally really, really lovely.”
Is sex a long-term or short-term thing for you?
I’m in it for the long haul. I enjoy what I do, and it’s probably better than anything else I can think of. I wouldn’t mind doing more online content, and sometimes I miss stripping.
“I hope to be involved in sex work for as long as I can.”
“I’ll motherfucking be doing grandma porn.”
“Maybe I’m going to be a sex worker until I’m 90, and there is nothing wrong with that.”
Holy crap I love your input. Sex is weird and this is a weird thing to talk about on top of that. As a customer I often struggle with the idea that I am in some way abusing you. As we’ve talked about before, I look at myself as just wanting to fuck, and you’d like to get paid for it. Seems so easy, right? But there are always questions.
Ask away, Darkmatter. I am an open book. 🦄😼
I figure if I’m gonna fuck, why not get paid for it. Isn’t that what it’s all about. Either find something you love and get paid for it, or get paid for a hobby?
I love reading everything you write. You’re an intelligent young lady.
Many people love sex. As one girl told me – apart from the money, she “loves to fuck”. Yes, some people are in it just for the money, and there is nothing wrong with that – the girl is providing a very needed service ,and must be well compensated, in my opinion. anyway .Moreover there is not much difference in having a girlfriend or a few, again, in my opinion .Actually there are sometimes far less drama. Furthermore there is nothing to feel guilty about if the girl is independent and in control. Personally speaking, respect and generosity is something that I always believe in. Met some wonderful ladies in this hobby, by the way. Stacey is phenomenal.
Thanks, Boobsman. My goal is to please. And to be low drama.
HI STACEY! DENNIS HERE. I’VE MISSED YOU. NOT SEEING ENOUGH OF YOU LIVE AND IN PERSON!! CAN YOU FIX THAT FOR ME?