Despite posting that I am taking an indefinite break, I’ve had several guys showing up banging on my door or incessantly ringing the doorbell, and some of them I know have read my posts and know that I am not currently seeing customers.
showing up without an invitation is not OK
Even if I was seeing customers, showing up without an invitation is not OK. Even if you have a reservation for a certain time, you still need to wait until I give you the OK—for all the obvious reasons that I’ve posted about before.
Texting me to say you’ll stop by at such and so time is not an invitation. If I don’t respond, it is not an invitation.
If I don’t respond, it is not an invitation
Parking in the street or my driveway without a date is stalk-y and laying on the horn is beyond words. This is the reason I didn’t want to host out of my house in the first place. It’s even worse when guys disrespect my privacy.
And when guys know that I am not even open of business and still show up? What can I say?